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Marnie Oursler

President & Owner of Marnie Custom Homes

As a fifth-generation home builder, Marnie has taken all the skills she learned from generations before her and expanded on them to design and build custom beach homes that bring visions to reality. In 2023 she was awarded the Custom Home Builder of the Year by the National Association of Home Builders (NAHB). This award is the highest honor given within the custom home building industry, and she is the first female recipient, as well as the first Delaware-based builder to receive the esteemed award.

While each home Marnie builds reflects life at the beach in a variety of ways, the main goal is to always fulfill the homeowner’s wants and needs, creating spaces to fit their lifestyle while embracing the natural surroundings of our Delaware beaches.

As soon as a client starts describing their vision, Marnie is already creating the blueprint in her head. With more than 25 years of experience in both building and designing custom beach homes, she knows every aspect of what’s required to build safe, sustainable, and weather-resistant homes while also creating innovative one-of-a-kind spaces that enhance life at the beach for families and their guests. She has built over 130 homes to date throughout the Delaware beach region.

You may recognize her as the host of DIY Network’s Big Beach Builds and HGTV’s Dream Home. A graduate of the prestigious Global MBA program at Duke University’s Fuqua School of Business, she is a frequent speaker on such issues as building a business, cultivating a mentor, and creating working relationships that truly benefit all involved. Marnie is a member of the Board of Advisors for The Center of Entrepreneurship and Innovation at The Fuqua School of Business at Duke University. She played Division 1 Soccer at the US Naval Academy before transferring to East Carolina University where she played Division 1 Softball and earned her undergraduate degree.

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Approach

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A Builder Who Listens and Cares
When you build a Marnie Home we anticipate and guide you through the tens of thousands of choices needed to make your dream home feel like home. Marnie takes you through the entire process, step by step, keeping priorities front of mind and her eyes on the prize—your dream home. Our clients trust us to make decisions that perfectly suit their personal style and lifestyle. And you will, too.
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A Logical Process
Every aspect of building your home, from budget creation, to vendors, to finish selections, is expertly managed for a seamless, relaxing and enjoyable experience. Rest assured Marnie’s tenacious attention to every detail–from aligning the interior trim to getting manufacturer warranty certificates–means you can breathe easy. With our unique online interface, clients can access budgets, costs and schedules from anywhere in the world. And frequent one-on-one communication and weekly meetings keep things moving and clients feeling secure and on top of the project.
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An Uncommonly Fun Experience
It’s exciting to build a Marnie home, because you also build a friendship! Marnie’s warm, engaging style and cheerful demeanor means building your dream home will be a big, fun adventure. We care, and we want to make it right for you. Our mutually-respectful and beneficial longstanding relationships with vendors and subcontractors ensure you get the best value. That’s why our clients’ friends and neighbors can’t wait to build a “Marnie Home” of their own.

What our customers are saying…

Wondering what it’s like to build with MCH? Hear from “Paradise Point” homeowner Kay Bruner about her experience working with Marnie Custom Homes.
A Seamless Experience with Exceeding Results
Marnie and her team at Marnie Custom Homes made our design/build custom home experience pleasurable, exciting, and seamless. We had a long list of design requests and amenities we wanted to incorporate within our home. We were able to easily collaborate with their team and ended up with a home that exceeded our expectations! Stan Staniszewski and our awesome project manager, Matt Millman, kept the lines of communication open and were extremely responsive to our frequent phone calls, allowing us to complete our project on time!
– Amy & Dave
“Live Lucky” – Fenwick Island, Delaware
A Dream Beach House That Reflects Our Family’s Style
Working with Marnie Custom Homes exceeded every expectation from start to finish. We wanted to build our dream beach house reflecting our family’s unique needs and style. The MCH team surpassed our expectations in every way. Their responsiveness, attention to detail, professionalism, and commitment to our vision made the entire process smooth and enjoyable. Marnie’s amazing design sense, combined with her team’s always-positive, can-do attitude, made the whole process so much fun! The final result is stunning—our home is everything we envisioned and more!
– MCH Homeowners
“Wavehaven” – North Bethany Beach, Delaware
Better Than We Dreamed
We knew early on we wanted a Marnie Custom Home. What we didn’t know was how awesome the experience was going to be. Marnie’s first meeting is to start with your ‘dream list.’ Next thing you know, after 9 months of zero drama with her team of experts, they hand you the keys to something better than you could have dreamt.
– Ted & Susan
“Dune Lodge” – South Bethany Beach, Delaware
A True Labor of Love
From the very first design meeting, we felt Marnie completely understood our vision and was able to give our house shape on paper. Her amazing creativity guided us every step of the way, and never once did we lose sight of our vision. Every home Marnie designs is a true labor of love, and her work is clearly her life’s passion!
– MCH Homeowners
“Kan’t Beat The View” – North Bethany Beach, Delaware
The Envy of the Community
Everyone on Marnie’s team takes extreme pride in their role in the process. Whether it was dealing with the budget, selections, project management, or working with Marnie herself on unique custom features, we felt as though we were the only project that MCH was focused on. End result… a one-of-a-kind dream home that is the envy of the community.
– Bob & Toni
“BeachWood” – Middlesex Beach, Delaware
A Truly Joyful Experience
Marnie and her team have been fantastic to work with over the past year. They guided us through a large and fast-paced build process with vision, organization, and a team that is the best we’ve seen in the industry. So much goes into building at the beach, but Marnie Custom Homes made it an easy and enjoyable experience. Visiting our new home with our Memorial Day group was an overwhelmingly joyful experience, and Marnie and her team made that happen for us. Our Project Manager, Grey, went out of his way to juggle subs and get us into the house—it meant the world to us, our family, and our friends.
– Steve & Christine
– North Bethany Beach, Delaware

Community

Marnie builds dream homes that feel like home. She also builds community by giving back: whether by using locally-sourced materials, helping Delaware students get hands-on learning opportunities, or supporting arts education for underprivileged kids.

Building American

Marnie is a professional builder and advocate for American-made materials and workers. She believes in using her skills to help others, which is why she is a member of Contractors for a Cause. Marnie also serves as a spokeswoman for 84 Lumber’s Build American campaign, raising awareness about the importance of buying American-made products.

Active Memberships

Marnie is a business executive and entrepreneur with over 25 years of experience in the corporate world. She has served on numerous boards of directors, and currently sits on the board of Beebe Hospital Foundation, Duke University Fuqua School of Business Center of Entrepreneurship & Innovation, and the James B. Duke Society- Duke University. Marnie also belongs to several organizations including the Women’s Impact Network – Duke University and East Carolina University Letterman’s Club, to name a few.

Mentoring & Motivating

Marnie is passionate about helping others achieve their dreams and finds joy in mentoring and coaching others, whether it’s in business or in life. Her focus is always on relationships – building them, growing them, and making them last. She believes that strong relationships are the key to success in any area of life. She pays it forward as a mentor for Girls, Inc., Duke University FoundHER’s challenge and offers advice and motivation at events like NYU Stern Business School’s Women in Business Conference, Melissa and Doug Entrepreneurship Program and the Forté MBA Women’s Leadership Conference. Marnie is dedicated to helping people reach their goals by providing guidance, support, and inspiration – because when people succeed, we all succeed.

Volunteer Time/Donations Annual Gifts

Marnie is a social leader committed to helping people achieve their dreams and making the world a better place. Her mission is to always put people first, empower women and girls, and build community. Each year Marnie provides scholarship to East Carolina University funding to deserving young women and men in higher education who are pursuing construction management careers, donates financially to various Methodist and Presbyterian churches, and supports a wide variety of other causes that are important to her. In addition to her financial contributions, Marnie also donates her time and energy to many different organizations, such as, the Michael J. Fox Foundation, focused on Parkinson’s research and support. She is a strong believer in the power of giving back, and she knows that even the smallest act of kindness can make a big difference in the world. For Marnie, volunteering is an important way to live out her values and make a positive impact on the lives of others.